tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6073886702008790829.post5429562253786100241..comments2023-11-05T06:20:16.951-05:00Comments on Clarity in muddy waters: Dirrty!!!Lorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284123619357068571noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6073886702008790829.post-80521043484988488002012-08-16T08:01:00.702-04:002012-08-16T08:01:00.702-04:00So kiddo tell me when did anger, get taken out of ...So kiddo tell me when did anger, get taken out of the mix of human emotion? Anger is the logical reaction to someone, anyone, imposing their crap on your personal space. <br /><br />You're right it is a weapon, a weapon of self defense to maintain your own sanity. Your own sanity which after all is your only true responsibility.<br /><br />You can reach out and help others and when you pull your hand back you find its been chewed to a bloody stump, so what?, you just shrug and shut down? Nope you go and stew and simmer until it either passes or builds to the point where you lose your own control and BLAST OFF!<br /><br />Not cool at all...misuse of a tool, penalty and a foul go to the box for two minutes. (Hockey thing).<br /><br />If your pissed, be pissed when you're pissed not ten day later. Clear the air while the smoke is still in it. That's how accords and accommodations are arrived at.<br /><br />The whole point of being the age you're now, is learning to cope with worry, fears, and doubts- your own. Because we all walk our own path and we all walk it our own way. <br /><br />I haven't gone to bed pissed in almost twenty five years, not because anger is so far away from me but rather I release it when I feel it, not tomorrow.<br /><br />Now I am finding that after a lifetime of being pissed off about something or another...I really can shrug off other peoples drama, even those I truly, deeply love, add a word of solace and walk away without a trace of "I should have said this or that." <br /><br />Life is hard enough, heavy enough already without being loaded up with some one elses baggage.<br /><br />Know what I mean?the walking manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058913927297370740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6073886702008790829.post-1558270359864871542012-08-16T06:15:02.796-04:002012-08-16T06:15:02.796-04:00Annette- The overflow has to stop quite soon or I ...Annette- The overflow has to stop quite soon or I am going to overflow my ass out of here. I worked to hard to get peace of mind and I refuse to let anyone break it.<br /><br />bugerlugs63- I'm so happy to hear from you. Some days are harder than others that is for sure. As long as we keep doing "me" things will work out. Faith girl, it keeps me going. Many hugs from me also. Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06284123619357068571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6073886702008790829.post-65748725241988376262012-08-15T11:04:05.224-04:002012-08-15T11:04:05.224-04:00O Lori, huge hugs from me. I'm, just back from...O Lori, huge hugs from me. I'm, just back from hols and catching up before I post . . . I felt like sticking that middle finger up over and over on hols to Bro and wife . . . Self righteous springs to mind!<br />As you saying, you are still "doing you" and that has to be your priority. Thoughts, prayers and love sent you Lori x xbugerlugs63https://www.blogger.com/profile/08598249255143939365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6073886702008790829.post-78038854600473003682012-08-15T09:55:55.720-04:002012-08-15T09:55:55.720-04:00That all sounds really hard. I'm so glad thoug...That all sounds really hard. I'm so glad though that you are healthy and the drama is not at the center of your own personal life. It all belongs to others and you are "just" the recipient of the overflow. Annettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401noreply@blogger.com