Oct 6, 2009

Men, Men, and Men

Why are men so obsessed with sex? Why the hell did they invent Viagra. (I'm kidding about that, I know certain medications make Viagra helpful with side-effects from other medications etc). I have not been single in many years. Now I feel like a piece of meat on a rack. Even my own landlord stares at my boobs instead of my eyes, and I like to think I have rather nice eyes. Is it the nature of the beast? I know women who are the same way. Maybe it is that I am just still thinking of myself as married. I am not ready. People don't get me, ie. men. I don't care what you look like. It's your brain I want. If you can't put together a decent sentence, have an intelligent conversation, than I don't care how wealthy you are, (which many women tell me I am stupid) or what you drive. A sharp mind is the most attractive quality in a man or woman. It's what makes you unique and special. My landlord, who is VERY fond of me, has loads of money can't find Iraq on a map. To me, that negates everything else. I don't feel like playing the game. I know, I know, I am not getting any younger. What's so wrong with being alone? I enjoy my own company. I am in the middle of a huge lawsuit defending my late husband. My thoughts are consumed. I would love to meet a man one day to share my dreams and thoughts with. Just please make an attempt to look at my eyes.

8 comments:

Pookie said...

There's nothing wrong with you preferring a man with a brain to a man with money; there's something wrong with the women who tell you you're stupid. When the money runs out, what's left? (and if the man has no brains, the money IS going to run out!)Always go for what's inside a person, as opposed to what's in their pocket. (or in their pants! lol)

Lori said...

God I love you...see you have a good brain, and you are much better looking than my landlord, lol..keep your head up my dear friend.

the walking man said...

Uh Lori, would you mind lowering the camera a bit, I wanna stare too.

Men, most men are carnal creatures thinking through wallet and physical reality. women tend to generally come from the other direction.

Most of my close friends are female.

Lori said...

I am officially flipping you the bird buddy..lol...If most of your close friends are female than you are alright with me. I have sexually been with men and women in my life, and you are not kidding. Men and women are two totally different species. My webcam is broke..hahaha.

the walking man said...

OK I admit it all of my friends are female.

Lori said...

Be thankful that you have friends, lol.

Whitemist said...

It is always a smile that attracts me. There have been drop dead beautiful bodies with no smile that I will not look at.After that it is the heart, a gentle and kind heart.
I myself, do not think much of the mind, I do not find many people who think in the same erratic,challenging way that I do so I don't expect it. I prefer a smile and a soft heart.

Lori said...

Whitemist- lOl, I am trained to smile. After years of customer service, that is the first thing you have ingrained. A soft heart is hard to find these days. A smile and a soft heart.. You have good taste. I just have always liked smart men because I love to learn. I had a conversation with my landlord last night and I used the word altruistic. He looked at me and said speak English. I was....I was raised to use proper English in my home. My dad was a fanatic about that. If I can't communicate with you, than there will never be anything there. I'm not snotty and use slang. That just was the appropriate word to describe a mutual friend. Sigh....I hope one day I meet a kind person with a nice smile and a kind heart.